Dating then and now
For teenagers today, the group is more important than the individual.
In fact, it seems that one’s social standing within the group is more important today than being an individualist and moving to the sound of one’s own drummer, which was the way it was during my adolescence.
In some instances, after several dates, we might decide to go “steady.” We would become boyfriend and girlfriend.
My grandchildren informed me that this isn’t the way things are done today.
Back in the 50s dating meant a one-on-one engagement.
As a youth I would ask a girl to go to the movies or some such activity. If yes, we would go to the movie and perhaps have some ice cream afterwards.
By being part of the social group prior to “dating” they each get to see how the other relates to the group and are able to discover their common interests.
Please become a fan on his Facebook Fan Page by indicating “like” on the page by clicking here.Therefore, it was necessary to date one on one in order to find out whether there was common ground and connection.For young people today, it is not as common to meet someone outside of one’s social circle since practically everything is done with one’s group.You only have to look as far back as the ’90s to start comparing the present to life without texting, dating apps and, as Shakespeare would say, that cursed social media.But while it’s easy to see the ’90s through rose-coloured glasses, we do have to give the present some credit—no way would we trade our smartphones for pagers.
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While we really can’t argue with the appeal of that, there’s something to be said for having too much choice.