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Adult interaction is also vital to avoid the pitfall of relying too heavily on children to fill the gap left by an adult.
As a single parent, you have adult needs for intimacy, understanding, companionship, reassurance, encouragement and romance that can only be fulfilled by another adult.
You are better equipped emotionally to handle a series of up and down dating relationships than your children.
Your children may see your dates as competition for your love and attention, and it will damage or destroy their fantasies that you and you ex will get back together.
Your dating can also reawaken the fears of abandonment they felt when you split up with their other parent.
Experts advise that you ask yourself these three questions when deciding whether you should let your kids know you're thinking about (or have already started) dating again: By being aware of your children's emotional needs, and keeping them part of the equation, you're helping them to be happier.
And a happy, secure child will be more accepting of your new partner.